{"id":923,"date":"2011-01-24T23:04:00","date_gmt":"2011-01-25T04:04:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/daily-habit-11-kiss-your-spouse-for-at-least-fifteen-seconds-and-hug-for-at-least-thirty-seconds\/"},"modified":"2015-09-11T15:10:01","modified_gmt":"2015-09-11T19:10:01","slug":"daily-habit-11-kiss-your-spouse-for-at-least-fifteen-seconds-and-hug-for-at-least-thirty-seconds","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/daily-habit-11-kiss-your-spouse-for-at-least-fifteen-seconds-and-hug-for-at-least-thirty-seconds\/","title":{"rendered":"Daily habit 11: Kiss your spouse for at least fifteen seconds and hug for at least thirty seconds"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cIt isn\u2019t, of course, the magic of kissing for fifteen seconds or hugging for thirty seconds that makes this a good daily habit. It is the fact that a fifteen second kiss is more than a peck, and a thirty second hug is more than a passing squeeze. The \u201ctime minimums\u201d force us to stick around a little bit, stop what we\u2019re doing, and be close to the one we love.\u201d<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

 <\/span>This is a new “rule” for us (as of the 2008 original article)! Don’t blush…you know that you function better in all areas when you have kissed and hugged enough! My brother-in-law, a much cooler, younger person than Ray or I, came home (along with my sister and their kids) this summer to visit following a marriage retreat. When anything got stressful for my sister, he would say (as only Uncle Leonard can), “Come here, honey. You know we didn’t have our kissing and hugging yet. That’s probably what’s wrong.” What a sweet husband!<\/span>

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Leonard was just stressing something that all of us married parents need to emphasize: romance can help alleviate stress, including kissing and hugging! Our kids thought our elevator kissing was unbearable already, without enduring it for a full fifteen seconds! But you know what? They secretly like it. \ud83d\ude42<\/span>

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It isn\u2019t, of course, the magic of kissing for fifteen seconds or hugging for thirty seconds that makes this a good daily habit. It is the fact that a fifteen second kiss is more than a peck, and a thirty second hug is more than a passing squeeze. The \u201ctime minimums\u201d force us to stick around a little bit, stop what we\u2019re doing, and be close to the one we love. Maybe there won’t always be time for romance, hearts, flowers, and rainbows, but our marriage is the most important (and longest!) relationship we have on this earth. We need to protect it, nurture it, and shower it with kisses and hugs.<\/span>

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So\u2026.there you have it. Eleven daily habits* that make a huge difference in my home and school. I did want to add that “daily habits,” for us, has always meant “more often than not.” We do not beat ourselves up trying to achieve perfection. We have found through the years that if we can do those important things four days a week at least (more often than not), we will succeed over the long haul. Of course, hugging and kissing has to be 365 days a year to make me truly successful in life. Smile\u2026<\/span>

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Note: To start at the beginning of the \u201cEleven Daily Habits for \u201911,\u201d click on the link that follows: https:\/\/positiveparenting3-6-5.blogspot.com\/2011\/01\/eleven-daily-habits-for-11.html<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n


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***Parts of this article were written in 2008 under the title \u201cEight Daily Habits for \u201908\u201d and published in Training for Triumph\u2019s homeschooling newsletter (as opposed to the \u201cEleven Daily Habits of \u201811\u201d in this blog).<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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