{"id":762,"date":"2012-08-27T01:25:00","date_gmt":"2012-08-27T05:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/for-those-attending-school-tip-11-create-consistent-after-school-routines\/"},"modified":"2015-07-25T16:43:49","modified_gmt":"2015-07-25T20:43:49","slug":"for-those-attending-school-tip-11-create-consistent-after-school-routines","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/for-those-attending-school-tip-11-create-consistent-after-school-routines\/","title":{"rendered":"For Those Attending School–Tip #11: Create Consistent After School Routines"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Tip #11: Develop Consistent After School Routines<\/o:p><\/span><\/strong>
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\u201cThe only person who is educated is the one who has learned how to learn\u2026\u201d Carl Rogers<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

I know, I know\u2026this blog is filled with things that you, the parent, have to do. Believe me, I know it feels overwhelming and even unfair, at times, to have such a huge responsibility as raising sons and daughters. So much to think about in raising children for the Lord. We have to be good examples of what we want our kids to become; we have to be in charge of their eating and healthy habits; we have to discipline them so that they grow up with self-control; we have to oversee their education and spiritual development; we have to teach them God\u2019s Word; and on and on. <\/p>\n

Today I would like to continue this \u201cback to school series\u201d for those who attend school with a post I wrote a couple of years ago about developing effective after school routines. As I said earlier in this series, I have homeschooled for nearly thirty years, so I don\u2019t have a lot of \u201cgoing to school\u201d experience, but when I see someone doing something that seems to work, I love to pass that along!<\/o:p><\/span><\/div>\n

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A couple of years ago we had an editor working for us who had three children (elementary) in school. One day I stopped by after school to drop off a document and found what I would consider to be one of the most ideal after-school practices (as far as helping her children with school is concerned).<\/p>\n

This gal was standing at the kitchen bar with backpacks open in front of her. All three children were seated at the table eating snacks that she had laid out for them when they got off the bus. Mom was opening each backpack, checking to see what each child brought home, looking through homework folders, etc. and dialoguing with the kids about upcoming assignments, what their day was like, etc.<\/p>\n

Contrast this with kids coming home, dropping backpacks on the floor of the back porch, grabbing a Twinkie, and going in to the tv or game system. <\/p>\n

Yes, kids did just work hard all day at school. Yes, they do need breaks. However, taking part in an after-school routine with Mom or Dad, such as the one described above, does a number of things:<\/p>\n

1. The parent, not the child, is determining snacks. I am sure kids are starving when they get home from school. And we all know that when we are hungry, we often reach for convenience, not health. Mom can have healthier snacks ready than what the child might choose.<\/p>\n

2. Mom is checking homework right away\u2014not hoping that the child remembers later. No surprises at ten o\u2019clock!<\/p>\n

3. There is uninterrupted (by electronics, anyway) dialogue about the kids\u2019 day. <\/p>\n

4. In the long run, kids will actually have more free time in the evenings if things are at least checked when student first gets home. They might not have it when they first walk in the door, but there will be a plan for the evening\u2019s activities and schedule\u2014and play time\/electronics time may be earned by completing assignments, etc.<\/p>\n

5. Lets Mom and Dad know how much they will be needed that evening. No mom or dad likes to be told at ten p.m. that the child needs poster board for tomorrow!<\/p>\n

6. Mom can find things lurking\/hiding in the backpack\u2014field trip permission slips, note from the teacher, etc.<\/p>\n

Now obviously, this is just one scenario that would work. And, once again, the success of this depends on each family\u2019s priorities. If a family prioritizes after school activities or sports, then this meeting might not take place until later in the evening. Each family has to make those choices. <\/p>\n

Homeschoolers can benefit from these ideas, as well. My children do much better with their daily chore and school charts when I check them every afternoon before they get \u201coff\u201d for the day. <\/p>\n

Homeschoolers and school-away kids alike benefit from accountability and structure. It is our job as parents to provide both of these.<\/span><\/o:p><\/span><\/div>\n

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