{"id":4759,"date":"2016-04-20T20:53:46","date_gmt":"2016-04-21T00:53:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/?p=4759"},"modified":"2016-04-20T20:53:46","modified_gmt":"2016-04-21T00:53:46","slug":"video-handling-heart-behaviors","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/video-handling-heart-behaviors\/","title":{"rendered":"[Video] Handling Heart Behaviors"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"Video: How to Use Handling Heart Behaviors Poster Pack\" href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/video-handling-heart-behaviors\" rel=\"lightbox\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"Video: How to Use Handling Heart Behaviors Poster Pack\" src=\"https:\/\/farm2.staticflickr.com\/1629\/26277322000_55b14e7ea3.jpg\" alt=\"Video: How to Use Handling Heart Behaviors Poster Pack\" height=\"500\" width=\"500\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Dear Wondering Wednesday Friends,<\/p>\n<p>I think I have finally figured out how to get my videos all uploaded (as long as each one is under fifteen minutes long). So&#8230;welcome to another Wondering Wednesday video!<\/p>\n<p>I have audios as well as blog posts (as well as entire sessions of Raising Kids With Character seminar and homeschooling workshops) on The Four D\u2019s of Behavior and Handling Heart Behaviors, but I think a video suits this topic well with the poster packs and worksheets we offer (by the same name).<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>In this video, I walk through the Handling Heart Behaviors Poster Pack and Worksheets to show you how to use these tools\u2014and how to handle the Four D behaviors in your home (with or without the packet). (The packet was a freebie in March, but it can be purchased <a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkstore.com\/product\/handling-heart-behaviors-poster-worksheet-pack\/\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>.)<\/p>\n<p><strong>Watch Part I:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/IHWzq7oE9zE?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The store description of the packet will help you understand what the video contains as well:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIn this helpful parenting packet, Donna Reish (of Raising Kids With Character seminar, Homeschooling With Character seminar, and Character Ink Press and blog) offers three worksheets to help parents of tweens and teens work through some of the difficult heart behaviors (described in <a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcast-understanding-the-four-ds-of-behavior-in-our-children-and-why-you-need-to\/\" target=\"_blank\">The Four D\u2019s of Behavior podcast episode<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcast-dealing-with-heart-issues-of-tweens\/\" target=\"_blank\">Handling Heart Behaviors of Tweens podcast episode<\/a>).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Watch Part II:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"1080\" height=\"608\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/pYx1vO0P0_8?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The worksheets included are designed to be used first by the parents (to determine ahead of time the behaviors that need changed and the way these behaviors will be handled) and then by the parents with the child. They help parents take these behaviors (disrespect, fighting, and disobedience) from gray (\u201cDon\u2019t talk to Mom like that\u201d; \u201cQuit fighting\u201d; and \u201cI\u2019m not telling you again\u2026go do it!\u201d) to black and white (where everybody knows what is expected and what the consequences will be for infractions).<\/p>\n<p>All of the worksheets have the same general steps (with spaces to fill in) to begin with:<\/p>\n<p>(1) Make a list of unacceptable behaviors<\/p>\n<p>(2) Make the list of consequences\/plan for carrying them out<\/p>\n<p>(3) Choose signaling words and phrases to be used when the offense is committed<\/p>\n<p>(4) Determine what the appropriate\/acceptable response from the child will be.<\/p>\n<p>Additionally, each page has its own signaling words laid out for parents and child. The Disrespect Sheet has the \u201cchanging tone\u201d signaling words in order to give the child a chance to change his tone and realize how he is speaking. The Disobedience Sheet has the \u201cno response rule\u201d with appropriate signaling words for that rule. Finally, the Fighting Sheet has the \u201cno accusing signaling words\u201d to help children change how they \u201ctell on someone\u201d and the \u201cwill you stop\u201d signaling words to keep the request civil and circumvent potential fighting. These worksheets were developed after thirty-three years of Christian parenting\u2014and they really work!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Thank-you for your continued support!<\/p>\n<p>Love and hope,<\/p>\n<p>Donna<\/p>\n<p>P.S. Subscribe to our YouTube channel <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCP83-G89iWjyIzu0fhpMeeg\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p>Links to check out:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/video-the-four-ds-of-behavior-poster-pack\/\" target=\"_blank\">Video: The Four D&#8217;s of Behavior Poster Pack<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkstore.com\/product\/4-ds-of-behavior-poster-pack\/\" target=\"_blank\">[Printable] Four D\u2019s of Behavior Download<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkstore.com\/product\/apology-poster-set\/\" target=\"_blank\">[Printable] Apology Posters <\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcast-ways-to-spend-more-time-with-your-kids\/\">[Podcast] Ways to Spend More Time With Your Kids<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcast-ten-tips-for-staying-close-during-intense-training-times\/\">[Podcast] 10 Tips for Staying Close During Intense Training Times<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcast-how-do-i-know-when-to-give-chances-and-when-to-take-action-when-to-give-our-kids-a-mulligan\/\">[Podcast] When to Give Chances and When to Take Action<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Dear Wondering Wednesday Friends, I think I have finally figured out how to get my videos all uploaded (as long as each one is under fifteen minutes long). So&#8230;welcome to another Wondering Wednesday video! I have audios as well as blog posts (as well as entire sessions of Raising Kids With Character seminar and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","_mi_skip_tracking":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,643,62,797,488,633,308,281,1106],"tags":[1153,1159,10,935,936,545,64],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v19.5.1 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>[Video] Handling Heart Behaviors - Character Ink<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/video-handling-heart-behaviors\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"[Video] Handling Heart Behaviors - Character Ink\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"&nbsp; Dear Wondering Wednesday Friends, I think I have finally figured out how to get my videos all uploaded (as long as each one is under fifteen minutes long). 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