{"id":4612,"date":"2018-01-15T09:52:57","date_gmt":"2018-01-15T14:52:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/?p=4612"},"modified":"2018-01-04T08:22:02","modified_gmt":"2018-01-04T13:22:02","slug":"video-using-the-consequence-pies","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/video-using-the-consequence-pies\/","title":{"rendered":"Video: Using The Consequence Pies"},"content":{"rendered":"
<\/a><\/p>\n Welcome to another Wondering Wednesday A\/V. Today\u2019s episode is a V\u2014video!<\/p>\n In this video, I show parents how to use our new \u201cConsequence Pies\u201d ebook\/download (one of last month\u2019s freebies!). However, if you do not have the Consequence Pies product, stay with me!<\/strong><\/p>\n The methodology in this download (available here<\/strong> <\/a>at our store) can be used with or without the product, and I explain that protocol in this video! (Plus, you could make your own pies easily after watching the video.)<\/p>\n <\/p>\n The idea behind the Consequence Pies is to take control of negative routine behaviors (as opposed to one of the Four D\u2019s—check out that product here<\/strong><\/a>) that are developing or that have developed by putting the outcome back in your child\u2019s hands\u2014while giving grace and \u201cchances\u201d as needed.<\/p>\n Watch the first part closely\u2014there are things that must be done on the parents\u2019 part before using this approach: training, rewarding, follow through, and more. But once all of that is done, it is time for the child to decide \u201cyes, I am going to do my homework every day before computer time\u201d or \u201cyes, I am going to take out the trash like I am supposed to every day\u201d\u2014or suffer consequences (that he chooses ahead of time) for not following through on that routine behavior that I have been taught.<\/p>\n