{"id":4303,"date":"2017-11-21T12:37:34","date_gmt":"2017-11-21T17:37:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/?p=4303"},"modified":"2017-11-20T20:30:19","modified_gmt":"2017-11-21T01:30:19","slug":"christmas-with-college-and-adult-children-mistletoe-and-chap-stick","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/christmas-with-college-and-adult-children-mistletoe-and-chap-stick\/","title":{"rendered":"Christmas With College and Adult Children: Mistletoe and Chap Stick"},"content":{"rendered":"

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My husband loves to do clever things all the time\u2014pranks on the kids, jokes, etc. He also likes to do special things for the kids\u2014and let them know that he was thinking of them. (Not just that Mom thought of a special thing and had him \u201csign on\u201d for it!) I love this about him, and it makes our kids feel so well-parented by BOTH parents.<\/p>\n

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Last Christmas\u2014with one wedding behind us by four months and another one coming in a month or so\u2014Ray thought it would be fun to get the three married and one soon-to-be-married sons and sons-in-law mistletoe and chap stick for early Christmas presents. He was very adamant that he didn\u2019t want to give it to them on our Christmas gathering because he wanted them to \u201cuse\u201d them the whole month of December.<\/p>\n

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So…I indulged him and found a great deal on some beautiful fake mistletoe at Kohl\u2019s, and he picked up the chap stick at Walmart, and we set out to bag them\/wrap them (and mail them to two of the guys). He signed the card from himself and was quite pleased with his little \u201cprank.\u201d<\/p>\n

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The kids sent him pictures of them standing beneath it kissing, holding it over their lover\u2019s head, hanging it in their doorway, etc. And it was a fun Christmas gift for all.<\/p>\n

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As an aside, one of the best ways that you can make your children-in-law feel like a part of your family is to include them right from the start in your Christmas traditions. When our first child was married, the new \u201cReish\u201d got the same amount spent on her, the same attention, and the same Christmas gifts that everybody else. (According to one of my boys, the daughters-in-law get more than they do! LOL)<\/p>\n

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But not only gifts\u2014even this little \u201cprank gift,\u201d or picking up their favorite white chocolate (daughter-in-law) or dark chocolate (son-in-law) or texting them specific plans (as opposed to just sending the info to your child) can go a long way in making them feel a part of your family\u2019s Christmas celebrations.<\/p>\n

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Finding out what your children-in-law like is a great way to make them feel like a part of your Christmas festivities. Here are our two daughters-in-law with their special gifts from us–one collects penguins and the other snowmen!<\/em><\/p>\n

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P.S. Print off our free “Kids’ Faves” sheets<\/a> and give to your children-in-law to fill out to find out what makes them tick!<\/p>\n

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