{"id":3972,"date":"2015-10-08T17:09:37","date_gmt":"2015-10-08T21:09:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/?p=3972"},"modified":"2016-11-01T12:42:39","modified_gmt":"2016-11-01T16:42:39","slug":"podcast-dealing-with-heart-issues-of-tweens","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcast-dealing-with-heart-issues-of-tweens\/","title":{"rendered":"Podcast: Dealing With Heart Issues of Tweens"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"Podcast: Dealing With Heart Issues of Tweens\" href=\"#\" rel=\"lightbox\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" style=\"float: left;\" title=\"Podcast: Dealing With Heart Issues of Tweens\" src=\"https:\/\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5746\/22021767735_713fd54967_n.jpg\" alt=\"Podcast: Dealing With Heart Issues of Tweens\" width=\"320\" height=\"320\"><\/a>Donna Reish, of Raising Kids With Character, Homeschooling With Character, and Character Ink publishing, answers questions readers have been posing about handling 4 D types of behaviors (heart behaviors) in children ages eight to fourteen or so (primarily tweens). Donna emphasizes the need for parents to take responsibility for their parenting mistakes first. Then focus on taking the behaviors from gray to black &amp; white so that misbehaviors are clear and can be handled. She gives an important order\/protocol to make things very black and white with this age group for three typical misbehaviors, disrespect, disobedience, and fighting. Additionally, she gives suggested signaling words and phrases to use when these behaviors come up so that things are crystal clear as to the family expectations and handling of these things. (Listen to the prequel to this podcast episode, <a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcast-understanding-the-four-ds-of-behavior-in-our-children-and-why-you-need-to\/\" target=\"_blank\">\u201cUnderstanding The Four D\u2019s of Behavior.\u201d<\/a>) <a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/wondering-wednesday\/id969801076?mt=2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-3054 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/link-badge-itunes.png\" alt=\"Subscribe to Character Ink! in iTunes\" data-wp-pid=\"3054\" width=\"110\" height=\"40\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<h3>Download the podcast notes <a href=\"https:\/\/drive.google.com\/file\/d\/0B7uMzTn1z4JedHdEbVBiZ0NSVjg\/view?usp=sharing\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>.<\/h3>\n<h3>Listen to previous podcasts <a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcasts\/\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>.<\/h3>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\n<script src=\"\/\/characterinklady.audello.com\/player\/ZGVhbGluZy13aXRoLWhlYXJ0LWlzc3Vlcy1vZi10d2VlbnMubXAz\/?container=audello-2NMOH5E22G\" async=\"\" type=\"text\/javascript\"><\/script><\/p>\n<div id=\"audello-2NMOH5E22G\" class=\"audello-player audello-file\" data-role=\"audello-file\" data-audello-id=\"ZGVhbGluZy13aXRoLWhlYXJ0LWlzc3Vlcy1vZi10d2VlbnMubXAz\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">For 8.5 x 11\u201d posters and three worksheets that you can use with your children concerning these topics, click <a href=\"https:\/\/app.convertkit.com\/landing_pages\/119547?v=6\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong> <\/a>to subscribe to our weekly e-newsletters. You will receive a link to great printables that you can use to teach your children these concepts (and\/or to remind yourself of them!).&nbsp; Already subscribed?&nbsp; You\u2019ll find link in this week\u2019s newsletter for these posters \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"Handling Heart Behaviors Poster Pack\" href=\"https:\/\/app.convertkit.com\/landing_pages\/119547?v=6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"lightbox\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"Handling Heart Behaviors Poster Pack\" src=\"https:\/\/farm1.staticflickr.com\/724\/22040807675_c03431d2d2_n.jpg\" alt=\"Handling Heart Behaviors Poster Pack\" width=\"249\" height=\"320\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer; top: 1002px; left: 195px;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c  no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer; top: 1002px; left: 195px;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Donna Reish, of Raising Kids With Character, Homeschooling With Character, and Character Ink publishing, answers questions readers have been posing about handling 4 D types of behaviors (heart behaviors) in children ages eight to fourteen or so (primarily tweens). 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