{"id":3879,"date":"2015-09-30T10:00:23","date_gmt":"2015-09-30T14:00:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/?p=3879"},"modified":"2016-11-01T12:52:05","modified_gmt":"2016-11-01T16:52:05","slug":"podcast-understanding-the-four-ds-of-behavior-in-our-children-and-why-you-need-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcast-understanding-the-four-ds-of-behavior-in-our-children-and-why-you-need-to\/","title":{"rendered":"Podcast: Understanding the Four D\u2019s of Behavior in Our Children\u2014and Why You Need To"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a title=\"The 4 D's of Behavior\" href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcast-understanding-the-four-ds-of-behavior-in-our-children-and-why-you-need-to\" rel=\"lightbox\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft\" style=\"float: left;\" title=\"Podcast: Understanding the Four D\u2019s of Behavior in Our Children\u2014and Why You Need To\" src=\"https:\/\/farm1.staticflickr.com\/620\/21088129784_a81eaa8821_n.jpg\" alt=\"Podcast: Understanding the Four D\u2019s of Behavior in Our Children\u2014and Why You Need To\" width=\"320\" height=\"320\"><\/a>Donna Reish, from Character Ink (home of Raising Kids With Character, Homeschooling With Character, and Language Lady), answers listeners\u2019 questions about the Four D\u2019s of children\u2019s behavior: (1) Disrespect; (2) Disobedience; (3) Deceit; (4) Destruction (purposeful breaking or harming). This episode lays the ground work for next week\u2019s episode about punishing and disciplining tweens (especially ten to twelve year olds). Donna expounds on the Four D\u2019s as foolishness and heart-motivated (which necessitate punishment and serious handling), contrasting these with childishness\/character issues (which require training, rewards, and consequences).&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Click<a href=\"https:\/\/drive.google.com\/file\/d\/0B7uMzTn1z4JeQjU5UHJ0b2EtSXc\/view?usp=sharing\" target=\"_blank\"> <strong>here<\/strong><\/a> to download the printable handout.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/wondering-wednesday\/id969801076?mt=2\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-3054 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/06\/link-badge-itunes.png\" alt=\"Subscribe to Character Ink! in iTunes\" data-wp-pid=\"3054\" width=\"110\" height=\"40\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/wondering-wednesday\/id969801076?mt=2\"><br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/wondering-wednesday\/id969801076?mt=2\">Subscribe<\/a> to our Wondering Wednesday podcasts in iTunes.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<br \/>\nClick <a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/podcasts\/\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>here<\/strong> <\/a>to see our previous podcasts!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><script src=\"\/\/characterinklady.audello.com\/player\/NGRzLm1wMw==\/?container=audello-RSZLMTN1MV\" async=\"\" type=\"text\/javascript\"><\/script><\/p>\n<div id=\"audello-RSZLMTN1MV\" class=\"audello-player audello-file\" data-role=\"audello-file\" data-audello-id=\"NGRzLm1wMw==\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>For 8.5 x 11\u201d posters that you can use with your children concerning these topics, click <a href=\"https:\/\/app.convertkit.com\/landing_pages\/119547?v=6\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>HERE<\/strong> <\/a>to subscribe to our weekly e-newsletters. You will receive a link to great printables that you can use to teach your children these concepts (and\/or to remind yourself of them!).&nbsp; Already subscribed?&nbsp; You&#8217;ll find link in this week&#8217;s newsletter for these posters \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"4D's of Behavior -- Free Download!\" href=\"https:\/\/app.convertkit.com\/landing_pages\/119547?v=6\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"lightbox\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter\" title=\"4D's of Behavior -- Free Download!\" src=\"https:\/\/farm6.staticflickr.com\/5780\/21605065859_f783d11bf3_z.jpg\" alt=\"4D's of Behavior -- Free Download!\" width=\"640\" height=\"457\"><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"border-radius: 2px; text-indent: 20px; width: auto; padding: 0px 4px 0px 0px; text-align: center; font: bold 11px\/20px 'Helvetica Neue',Helvetica,sans-serif; color: #ffffff; background: #bd081c  no-repeat scroll 3px 50% \/ 14px 14px; position: absolute; opacity: 1; z-index: 8675309; display: none; cursor: pointer; top: 1015px; left: 20px;\">Save<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Donna Reish, from Character Ink (home of Raising Kids With Character, Homeschooling With Character, and Language Lady), answers listeners\u2019 questions about the Four D\u2019s of children\u2019s behavior: (1) Disrespect; (2) Disobedience; (3) Deceit; (4) Destruction (purposeful breaking or harming). 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