{"id":1339,"date":"2010-02-05T03:02:00","date_gmt":"2010-02-05T03:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/day-thirty-six-part-ii-develop-strategies-to-curb-your-familys-television-viewing\/"},"modified":"2015-06-05T14:19:50","modified_gmt":"2015-06-05T18:19:50","slug":"day-thirty-six-part-ii-develop-strategies-to-curb-your-familys-television-viewing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/day-thirty-six-part-ii-develop-strategies-to-curb-your-familys-television-viewing\/","title":{"rendered":"day thirty-six: part II&#8211;develop strategies to curb your family&#8217;s television viewing"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u201cThere are games to be played, living room football to be conquered, talks to be had, words of affirmation to be spoken, talking books to be listened to, stories to be read, lessons to be learned, foods to be cooked, lego castles to be built, crafts to be made, tales to be told, songs to be sung, and hearts to be won. Turn off the television and turn on relationships.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Curb Your Family\u2019s Television Viewing\u2014Part II of III<\/p>\n<p>1. When you do watch movies and television, watch it together whenever possible. This will allow you to keep tabs on what your children are seeing\/hearing, but it will also create opportunities for lively discussions. We love to talk about movies that we have watched. We love to quote lines from them back and forth to each other. Watching together allows you to share the entertainment, not just passively watch shows separately. (Obviously, we cannot do this all the time. The boys were on a Hogan\u2019s Heroes (on dvd) kick with one of their sisters. They only watched it when the four of them could all watch it together\u2014and Ray and I seldom joined them. We didn\u2019t have the time then to devote to watching it, and we knew that they were watching it together, so that worked out well.) It will be more of an event than an everyday occasion if certain shows or time slots are dedicated to family television watching or movie watching rather than just evening free-for-alls.<\/p>\n<p>2. Declare certain days \u201ctv-less days.\u201d If you cannot get rid of television programming all together, the \u201ctv-less days\u201d seems to be the next best thing to me. Decide what evenings\/days are people\u2019s least favorite days to watch something, and make those evenings no television evenings. Cover the television up\u2014and don\u2019t even consider turning it on. If you manage to have three evenings a week without television, you will likely cut your family\u2019s viewing by one third, at least. Just imagine evenings together without anything distracting everybody. (If you do this, follow our family\u2019s \u201creplacement\u201d rule\u2014if you\u2019re going to take something away from your kids, replace it with something else. More on this below!)<\/p>\n<p>3. Replace television with something else\u2014you! Years ago we went to a parenting seminar in which the speaker told a story of a dad who wanted to get rid of his family\u2019s television. His children balked at the idea. He told them that he was taking away the television, but giving them something else. They asked him what this something else was, and he replied, \u201cMe!\u201d Everyday his children would call him at work, anxiously awaiting his arrival home. \u201cWhat are we going to do tonight, Daddy?\u201d And each day he gave his children something far more valuable than television; he gave them himself. Don\u2019t just remove television, certain nights of tv viewing, or television time without replacing it. There are games to be played, living room football to be conquered, talks to be had, words of affirmation to be spoken, talking books to be listened to, stories to be read, lessons to be learned, foods to be cooked, lego castles to be built, crafts to be made, songs to be sung, and hearts to be won. 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