{"id":1278,"date":"2010-04-06T11:50:00","date_gmt":"2010-04-06T11:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/day-ninety-six-involving-preschoolers-with-older-kids-and-younger-kids\/"},"modified":"2015-06-05T15:14:24","modified_gmt":"2015-06-05T19:14:24","slug":"day-ninety-six-involving-preschoolers-with-older-kids-and-younger-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/day-ninety-six-involving-preschoolers-with-older-kids-and-younger-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"day ninety-six: involving preschoolers with older kids and younger kids"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cDuring breakfast clean-up, we listened to a story tape, which I LOVE. After breakfast, Mommy, Josiah, Kara, and I read some animal stories since that is what Kara is studying in our homeschool. I love animal stories and begged Mommy to read another one, but she didn\u2019t have time because my big brother needed her help on his math. She said maybe we would read an extra one tomorrow\u2014I\u2019ll be sure to remind her.<\/span><\/strong>

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I had to help with Baby Jacob. He can be so grouchy sometimes! Luckily, Mommy let me give him Cheerios to quiet him down, so I got some too.\u201d* <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

Today\u2019s excerpts from \u201cJonathan\u2019s Journal\u201d show Jonathan enjoying interaction with older siblings and younger siblings. Preschoolers love to be a part of what is going on! As homeschoolers, we found that each of our preschoolers, from number five through number seven, wanted to \u201cdo cool\u201d like their older brothers and sisters. They wanted to do what everybody else was doing. Thus, we have found that including them in what is going on in the family is a healthy thing for them (that sense of belonging) but also helpful for Mom when the preschooler is taught to interact appropriately with babies and toddlers.<\/p>\n

Whether you are a homeschooler or not, there are many things that you do all the time with older kids\u2014take them to the library for a school project, help with homework, do an art or craft for expo at school, etc. Consider including your preschoolers whenever possible. While, as homeschoolers, there are many times in which the preschooler simply has to entertain himself (and sometimes little brother!), there are many other times in which we can include the preschooler in what we do. These obviously include reading aloud, art, music, crafts, etc. As indicated in the lengthy read-aloud posts, preschoolers love to listen to us read to older ones (while they learn to \u201cmake the pictures in their heads\u201d).**<\/p>\n

Preschoolers can be outstanding \u201cbabysitters\u201d for toddlers, as Jonathan was in today\u2019s passage. We helped strengthen the bonds between our older children and younger ones by providing opportunities in which the older was \u201cresponsible\u201d for the little for a short time. Depending on the age of the older and the little, this could be a time in which the older read to the little or played a game or built Legoes, etc. or it could have just been a time in which the older got out the little\u2019s \u201cbusy basket\u201d and played with him or her (or fed Cheerios to the toddler!). <\/p>\n

While I can\u2019t say that this daily time together was THE main component of strengthening the relationships between the olders and youngers in our home, I will say that something did it\u2014and this had to at least contribute to it. Even to this day, our nineteen, twenty-two, twenty-four, and twenty-seven year olds think that their \u201clittle brothers\u201d (ages eleven, fifteen, and seventeen) are the most incredible teens and preteens. It seems like there isn\u2019t an instance that goes by in which I am talking to one of the older kids and he or she doesn\u2019t mention something about how awesome one of the \u201clittle guys\u201d is. I feel certain that the daily interaction and part in their care that the older ones had (and the fact that the little had to obey their older siblings, which caused the olders to love caring for and being around them) has been a contributing factor in their love and respect for their younger siblings.<\/p>\n

Include your preschoolers with the older kids\u2014and the younger kids! Challenge them in things that are in their control. And enjoy them.<\/p>\n

We have a full week lined up for you\u2014room time\/play pen time for preschoolers and toddlers. Applying the \u201cexpectations and reality discipline\u201d to your day.\u201d And\u2026ending with chores, chores, chores, including a lengthy list of ages and appropriate chores. Thanks for joining us!<\/p>\n

*For the complete story of \u201cJonathan\u2019s Journal, follow this link: https:\/\/positiveparenting3-6-5.blogspot.com\/2010\/03\/day-seventy-eight-introducing-jonathans.html<\/p>\n

**Read aloud posts start here: https:\/\/positiveparenting3-6-5.blogspot.com\/2010\/02\/day-fifty-eight-create-read-aloud-times.html<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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