{"id":1260,"date":"2010-04-27T02:52:00","date_gmt":"2010-04-27T02:52:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/day-116-age-appropriate-chores-pre-kk-ages-5-6\/"},"modified":"2015-06-05T15:11:27","modified_gmt":"2015-06-05T19:11:27","slug":"day-116-age-appropriate-chores-pre-kk-ages-5-6","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/day-116-age-appropriate-chores-pre-kk-ages-5-6\/","title":{"rendered":"day 116: age appropriate chores pre k\/k (ages 5-6)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201cBefore I knew it, it was time to set the table for lunch. Josiah and I raced to see who could get done with our jobs first. I slowed down at the end so Josiah could catch up—then I let him win! Mommy took me into her room alone and gave me a million hugs. She said she was so happy that I was learning to see how others feel\u2014and that I make Josiah feel important. I think she\u2019ll probably tell Daddy, and he\u2019ll say, \u201cJonathan, Mommy told me a good report about you!\u201d I love it when he says that\u2014he always has a big smile on his face and tears in his eyes when he does.\u201d*<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

–All of the \u201cHelp\u201d and \u201cChores on his Own<\/strong>\u201d listed in yesterday\u2019s post (toddler and preschool list)<\/span><\/p>\n


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-\u201cHelp\u201d**:<\/strong><\/span>

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1. Weekly cleaning of his bedroom (see daily cleaning under own chores below)<\/span>

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2. Weekly cleaning of toy room (let him help you develop systems\u2014more on this later)<\/span>

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3. Put refrigerated grocery items away in proper places (again, with him knowing systems well after having worked with you)<\/span>

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4. Learn to run washing machine and dryer\u2014with help and oversight<\/span>

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5. Help wash car<\/span>

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6. Help clean out car\u2014gradually make this alone chore by end of sixth year<\/span>

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7. Help with baking, including rolling out his own dough (that room time play dough helped!), rolling balls of dough for rolls or cookies, stirring, chopping nuts (hit with rolling pin in zip lock bag)<\/span>

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8. Help with meal preparation, including learning to assemble salad with prepared ingredients, layering of ingredients for casseroles, etc., making more elaborate sandwiches like submarines, <\/span>

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9. Help prepare packed lunches<\/span>

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10. Start learning to cut and clean produce (with child\u2019s safety knife\u2014Pampered Chef used to carry these)\u2014start with cutting lettuce with scissors, cleaning grapes, peeling potatoes as ready, slicing bananas for salad or smoothies, cutting and filling celery, etc. Work together on fresh food preparation, and you will be surprised what your six year old can do!<\/span>

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11. Work in yard with you\u2014give small tasks and have child report back to you for you to check on them (weed certain area, water certain area, pick up yard, etc.)<\/span>

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-To Become His Own Chores<\/strong> (after proper teaching and direction):<\/span><\/p>\n

1. Unload entire dishwasher<\/span>

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2. Clean table after simple meals\u2014teach to do this alone after breakfast and\/or lunch<\/span>

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3. Fold and put away fold up loads of laundry<\/span>

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4. Make simple microwave meals\u2014oatmeal packets, reheating leftovers; hot meat and cheese sandwiches<\/span>

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5. Other simple food preparation\u2014peanut butter and jelly; meat and cheese plate; stemming grapes to be washed; boiled egg peeling; layered salads for meals, simple lettuce salads and fruit salads, dishes that involve mixing things together in which you have opened the cans, etc., <\/span>

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6. Make beds throughout house (if sheets are already on them; not changing of the bedding)<\/span>

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7. Straighten a room at end of day (i.e. \u201cjurisdiction\u201d in easy room, such as toy room (in which he knows where everything goes) or a seldom used room that does not require much daily upkeep)<\/span>

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8. Dust room entirely alone (again, after having it as a \u201cHelp\u201d job for a while)<\/span>

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9. Gather laundry from baskets in each person\u2019s room and put in correct bin in laundry room (i.e. whites, darks, hang ups, etc.)<\/span>

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10. Mop small rooms with water only<\/span>

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11. Pick up yard <\/span>

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12. Clean bathroom or kitchen sink each day<\/span>

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13. Weed small areas of flower beds or around shrubs<\/span>

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14. Water flowers and\/or garden<\/span>

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–Notes<\/strong><\/span>

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a. By the end of age six, you want the child to have a consistent routine of morning routine (room, groom, dress, mess)\u2014all chores related to his own personal care, like hygiene, straightening bedroom, making bed, putting laundry in hamper, etc. <\/span>

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b. You will probably want to add to that daily routine one to three chore sessions in which he does the exact same daily work each day (or at least each week), such as folding and putting away fold up load, unloading dishwasher, setting lunch table, sweeping porch, etc. Or vary it some but have the same tasks each Monday, each Tuesday, etc.:<\/span>

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First Morning Session Daily: unload dishes and set table<\/span>

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Second Session: M: fold up laundry<\/span>

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                         T: sweep porch<\/span>

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                         W: fold up laundry<\/span>

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                        Th: simple lunch<\/span>

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                        F: fold up laundry<\/span>

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c. Do not neglect training in future chores! It is so nice when you have a six year old that has several tasks that he can do regularly on his own following your diligent training. However, you want to always be teaching him new tasks for the next \u201cchanging of the chores.\u201d (I changed my charts two to four times a year.)<\/span>

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d. Be sure to start giving this age child things that are truly essential to the operating of the family. He will feel much more needed and much more mature if he has real daily tasks that help the family operate more smoothly.<\/span>

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e. Because of the above items, you might want to have two chore sessions in which this aged child does regular jobs that are \u201chis\u201d followed by one session in which you work together\u2014this can be the time that you work in the kitchen together or do laundry together or any other \u201ctraining tasks.\u201d Of course, these can vary day by day. I almost always had a chore session in which a child just \u201cworked with Mom.\u201d<\/span>

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*For the complete story of \u201cJonathan\u2019s Journal, follow this link: https:\/\/positiveparenting3-6-5.blogspot.com\/2010\/03\/day-seventy-eight-introducing-jonathans.html<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

**If you have been reading PP 365 long, you probably remember that we focused on giving our children entire chores\/areas rather than just having them \u201chelp\u201d forever\u2026.this builds self-esteem, responsibility, and skills; however, in the toddler years, \u201chelping\u201d is what he will primarily do. Anything you can \u201cgive\u201d your pre-k\/k child (i.e. setting the table all by himself for breakfast and\/or lunch) will help him towards more and more responsibility.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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