{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"Character Ink","provider_url":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com","title":"Christmas With College & Adult Children: Invitation vs. Obligation - Character Ink","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"ENWZW7BmHW\"><a href=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/christmas-with-college-and-adult-children-invitation-vs-obligation\/\">Christmas With College &#038; Adult Children: Invitation vs. Obligation<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/christmas-with-college-and-adult-children-invitation-vs-obligation\/embed\/#?secret=ENWZW7BmHW\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Christmas With College &#038; Adult Children: Invitation vs. Obligation&#8221; &#8212; Character Ink\" data-secret=\"ENWZW7BmHW\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"&nbsp; &nbsp; In my last blog post, I talked about how to determine which traditions to keep for everybody and which traditions will likely go by the wayside. These are obviously very personal decisions \u2013 and you will probably want to discuss these with your older children. &nbsp; There are some other traditions that we [&hellip;]","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/characterinkblog.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/12\/Christmas-With-College-Adult-Children-Invitation-vs.-Obligation.jpg"}